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Getting to Know Jenifer!

Hello!!  I just want to take a minute and introduce myself to all of you and share a little bit of my history and background.  I thought I’d start off by sharing with you why I chose to become a Marriage and Family Therapist! 

Ever since I was a little girl, my parents always told me I would be a therapist when I grew up.  I was that kid that wanted to know, “why”…why people felt the way they did and if they were sad I wanted to cheer them up.  Even going through middle school and high school, I was the friend everyone would turn to when they needed to talk to someone, or they just needed to vent.  Now, I am still that little girl who wants to know “why” and that friend who everyone turns to.  This is what fuels my passion for my clients today.  I chose to focus my therapeutic attention on marriage, mostly, because going into graduate school I knew I wanted to pursue a specialization in sex therapy.  

For the past 6 years I have been employed by an adult novelty store where I have gained a vast knowledge of sexual awareness and sex education.  Thanks to customers who have been open and felt like they could talk to me, it has in turn opened my mind up to the more sensual and private endeavors in a couples’ relationship.  Working at my store, I feel, has prepared me for this field and has allowed me to help my clients in a more personal and private way, more than sitting in a classroom could have.  

On a more personal note, I am not married, nor do I have any children.  I do, however, have two VERY spoiled cats that I absolutely adore!  I really enjoy reading—my favorites are mysteries and romance.  Another favorite thing of mine is spending time with my closest friends; just eating sushi and sharing stories! 

I hope that by sharing a little piece of me has allowed you to see me on a more personal level, as more of an equal.  We all experience life in very different ways, but, nonetheless, we all experience times of hardships and happiness.

Hi! My Name Is Zully!

Hi there!  Let me introduce myself.  My name is Zully and I’m so excited to share with you experiences and life challenges that I’ve accumulated over the years as a student, mother, and wife.  Sometimes things are easy and other times they are just plain awful.  Some are small struggles while others are giant hurdles.  But one thing I have learned, that I hope I can help others with, is that situations are always changing and opportunities often present themselves in order for us to make things better.  However, those are not always obvious to us and, at times, we require a little help in seeing things in a different light.  

I’m a mother of two superb, clever young ladies, ages 10 and 14.  As you can imagine they are my pride and joy.  The other wonderful person in my life that is equally responsible for these amazing creatures is my husband of 16 years.  Oh and let’s not forget our youngest of all…Chloe, our 5 year old chocolate lab/pit bull mix.  She really is my third child that might never grow up.  

My passion in therapy is in promoting resiliency and strength in families, couples, and individuals.  I love seeing how children can blossom into their roles as teens and young adults.  However, these transitions are not always a smooth ride for everyone involved.  There are bumps along the way.  Many times people get stuck in patterns that are constricting or unproductive.  I help to explore alternative ways of handling and perceiving such challenges.  

So, along the way you will find that I tend to share with you experiences of my own, new developments in studies and research, and techniques that I feel can be useful in strengthening your relationship with yourself and others.  Thanks for reading and keep learning to keep growing!